I don’t really like to post everything that goes on in our life just because some things are personal and family still gets to know through the family grape vine. I guess not everyone knows...
When Nate and I came back from Mexico we had our final ultra sound…or so we thought. Everything was great! The baby was healthy. We didn’t find out the sex of our baby and were excited about the wait. About 3 or 4 weeks later my leg was hurting at work. We went to the doctor, who sent us to the ER where we found out that I have a blood clot in my left leg. This is a serious condition that can cause a Pulmonary Embolism. That Monday we went to our OBGYN to see what we were going to do. She sent us to a Peri-natologist (high-risk pregnancy specialist) where we had another ultra sound.
Nate and I both decided to find out the sex of our baby – which ended up being a huge blessing due to all the bad news. I can’t work any more due to the clot. I have to make sure I don’t stand or sit for to long period of time. I also have to have Nate give me 2 shots in my stomach every day to thin my blood out, which causes bruises and pain, and of course all the extra medical bills. Then a week later I found out that I have gestational diabetes. What next right….. Well tonight my dog Tank got ran over by a car and had to get one of his fingers (not sure what to call it) amputated. All of his skin from his paw to mid leg was torn off. The vet did, however, say that he will be fine and will be the same ol’ Tank after he heals up in a month or so.
On the better end of things Nate and I are having a girl…We feel it was a blessing not having found out the first time because it was able to bring us joy and happiness when we needed it most. It was also nice having good news to tell our family. Our little girl is healthy and doing well. Nate and I are enjoying the extra time together since I’m not working. As for Tank…I’ll keep you updated. Life is good!!!! Sorry to make it sound like a sob story. Nate and I have grown close together and feel TRULY BLESSED and wouldn’t change anything. We love you all. This is a picture of my war wounds on my stomach.
7 comments:
Heather your bruises do look bad!!! Sorry you have to go through so much.
Don't let people make you feel bad for finding out the sex of your baby. It is a very personal decision and I don't think anyone is justified in giving you hard time about it, really it "ain't nobodies" business but you and Nate!!!!! Oh and I don't think you are any more special if you do wait to find out the sex...like I said it is personal and it makes me mad that people would even try and give you a hard time about it!
Another blessing in disguise, you don't have to work so you have more time to clean your house and prepare for your little one. Plus when we come up for Thanksgiving we will get to spend quality time together b/c you won't be working!
Tank will get better and at least he will still be mobile and get back to his old self.
Just keep a positive attitude and remember to look for the silver lining. It could always be worse but really I think you are doing quite well and have much to be grateful for!!!
Hope you guys have a Happy Halloween don't let Tank get scared by any of the ghosts and goblins that will be coming by, and I hope you remember to use your cute little witch feet candy bowl!
Gotta run my tea kettle is screeching at me!!!!!
Hey Heather,
Well, despite your bruises, you have a very cute pregnant belly! But what a pain of that darn blood clot. I really hope those shots are helping.
I don't blame you one bit for finding out the sex. That is really neat that you guys recognized that this may be just the ticket to help you look past the other things. A little girl, that is very exciting. Congrats! I agree with Tabby, don't let anyone make you feel bad (and I hope that you didn't think I would be one of them!) You will have plenty of surprises to look forward too. My sister just had her baby and she had an entire head full of long curly hair. That alone was such a fun surprise.
Hope Tank feels better too. At least you have a buddy there to keep company with. He'll hardly notice his missing toe before too long.
Take care!
Heather I am sorry that things have turned out the way they have for you guys. I am glad you will be blessed with a baby girl. We are praying for you!
Hi Heather!
Wow, you have had a lot happen to you. How inspiring to see how you are seeing the blessings in it all! A lesser person would probably be asking "why us?" Is the gospel in our lives a miracle?! What a tender blessing to have found out that you are having a little girl. I agree, the timing on that couldn't have been better. Your dad said you told the name you were thinking of, but couldn't remember what it was, bummer. I will have to call you. I was asking a sister in our ward that knows a lot about natural heaking techniques. She has blot clots too and has been able to control them with frankensence (I know I didn't spell that correctly) essential oil. Are you interested in trying that?? She also take cayenne pepper in water everyday which stablizes her entire vascular and bloss systems. If you want I can find out the amounts and how often to take that. The Bishop's wife in our ward has also studied a lot on herbs and she has an uncle that has successfully controlled his high blood pressure with cayenne papper - pretty cool, huh? Anyway let me know and I can find out the details on that stuff!
Oh I am so sad for Tank. It always breaks my heart when an animal gets hurt. I am so happy to know that he will be able to heal up! Give him a little love for me, would you? I know you guys are taking really good care of him!
I am so happy for you guys and can't wait to see this beautiful little girl! Thanks for sharing what's happening. It helps me feel a little closer and I am really missing you guys!
Love, Julie
Don't laugh but when I first saw your picture I couldn't help but think Holy cow that baby is strong! I then read your story and marveled at your strength. You are inspiring. And what a blessing to be able to find out your having a girl. Now you can have fun making bows, buying dresses and whatnot to help you get through the next couple months.
Oh and I am sorry to hear about Tank. Thats sooo sad.
Just remember on the hard times: "Adversity is like manure, it stinks but it helps things to grow." Its a true statement but one that always makes me smile.
Sad! I hope it gets better! Keep us posted.
Hey guys! Heather, it looks painful, but I've been so impressed by how you've handled it all! You've been so strong-keep it up! And Tank, I know you thought I didn't like you at first, but I do! I'm sorry about your toe and hope it gets better soon. I'll come visit you this weekend! And Nate, well...hi! I'm sorry you were sick the other day, but hope you're feeling better! I'm excited to spend another great weekend with you guys! Love you all, and see you soon!
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